Ilgiz Yusupov biography

The Muslim Ilgiz Yusupov developed a scientific concept proving that the best wives are from the Russian Muslims. Ilgiz, why do you think that it is better to marry the Tatars of Russian Muslims, and not their own? Indeed, I have such a theory and concept. Like any observant, believing person, I had a goal: to find a worthy second half. I set up this purpose and began to analyze what is happening around.

In general, I am an innovator in terms of different theories and technologies, I always tried to do some non -standard things. I perfectly understood that if I take my Tatar, it would be standard and usually, but since I have a non -standard person’s thinking, I decided to look for other options. He began to analyze girls according to certain criteria, algorithms that I created for myself ...

compiled a questionnaire for myself and began to set it, communicating with the girls what kind of items are? First: how do they relate to family life? What is more valuable to them, family or career? Do they try to marry more likely, or first they want to correct their financial situation? Second: how will they relate to possible financial problems with their spouse? Third: how do they relate to religion, superficial or deep?

Fourth: How do they relate to the parents of the groom? They perceive or not, are they ready in the future to live with the parents of the spouse, to take care of them? Fifth: How do they relate to life at all, to a certain status, what is the status for them, how do they perceive Russia, a certain political system? Thus, I understood: whether a person reflecting in front of me, or at all on the drum that is happening in the country.

You indicated in the first paragraph that there is a difference for you: does the girl seek to get married as soon as possible and transfer problems at her husband, or wants to get to her feet. Is the financial independence of a woman important to you? No, I did not have such a situation that it was financially independent, but I had a situation for it to reach for knowledge. The last question that I asked is “What is politics for you, what would you like to change in society?

And if she cannot clearly answer this question, it is clear that she has ordinary tunnel thinking, which was said, then she does, draws standard approaches from the TV. This is very important. In general, when a man, especially a believer, tries to choose the second half, he, of course, first of all looks at spirituality. But everyone is in the soul-someone recognizes it, someone is not-wants a woman to be interesting.

And a person is interesting when he improves his qualifications, reads books not only in the field of nutrition, studies new trends - that is, when there is a certain personal growth. It is good when a woman, if not interested in politics, then something, possibly with some IT-technologies, social media, is something like that. If this is present, this is a competitive advantage. But, of course, the first is spirituality.

The believer understands that this is the basis, the foundation of the family. If there is no faith, neither a beautiful body, nor the mind will save, you will not go far on it. You called politics, IT technologies, but what about the classic housekeeper, "wash-to-collect-prepare"? Most men, as the belief says, aimed at finding a cook for yourself, and you can talk about Putin in blogs!

This household was not particularly interested in me - I can cook and help myself. Food and a clean house are not a goal and not the meaning of life. This is a standard, ordinary option, you will not go far either. For me, these are trifles, I do not bring them to priority. When I got a question of marriage, I began to study all these aspects. And there it is written in black and white how the best person, the Prophet Muhammad, relate to this.

And the Prophet himself washed, swept, cleaned, best treated women. There are many positive points. If we transfer this technology of relations into a modern way, then, in principle, no one is behaving now. Yes, because the men in time realized that for them it was unprofitable and for centuries all this distorted beyond recognition. A person who wants to get a normal life will break these barriers.

But what about appearance, beauty? Or is there enough rich inner world? There are certain values ​​- of course, men still pay attention to beauty. But I do not put high planks. If you evaluate beauty on a ten -point scale, enough, it's okay. But if it is a deuce, a three, somehow it becomes terribly. In fact, no matter how rude it sounds, you choose, in this context, “goods” in appearance, and the internal component is already something deeper.

Well, they figured out the criteria. So you outlined them, how did events develop further? How did communication with girls happen? In such cases, a faithful Muslim can turn to a spiritual mentor, imam. I said that I need such a service, I want to marry. Imam promised to help, found sisters, organized meetings.There are certain rituals that need to be observed - witnesses from her or on our part, as a rule, the father or brother of the bride, if they are not, then a relative, if they are not, then any parishioner of the mosque so that we do not remain alone.

Next, a standard acquaintance begins, "Hello." Immediately made a confession that I was not familiar with flirting or some other entertainment, I needed a life partner, I was interested in whether I could ask a number of questions. That side was understandable, "if you are an observant Muslim, you could only come with serious intentions, are ready to answer these questions." I asked questions - of course, not as during interrogation in the police, but in a softer form, jokingly.

We discussed some events. According to the girl’s manner, I understood who I was dealing with - I looked at facial expressions, at gestures to understand the reliability of answers. Because all people lie ... As Dr. House said ... Yes, this, in principle, everyone knows about this, they simply do not know. You double-check the interlocutor, restore questions, if some discrepancies begin, you draw certain conclusions.

How did the girls of different nationalities behave? Having talked with the Tatars, I came to the conclusion that they are more dominated by, do everything possible to present themselves beautifully, crushing that "we are the same blood, why do you need someone else, I am good-beautiful, I am teaching, I have such parents." Obviously begin to "sell" more expensive. They show that they are from a certain high estate.

And then, when other questions of a deep nature are going on, some inconsistencies, misunderstandings begin. Any reflecting man who at least a little understands psychology, understands that the opponent presses you already at the first meeting, is trying to prove his significance, to reampy his opinion, to prove that in this dialogue she shows her kind of stubbornness, discontent.

And when you begin to discuss some not material, but the spiritual norms that need to be observed, then all the problems begin. For example, when the question is discussed whether I can, if the financial situation allows me to start a second or third wife, a complete resistance begins. Tatar immediately says that this is impossible, this does not happen.

And with the argument, what the Almighty permits in the Qur'an does not agree. It is clear that if problems begin immediately, you can’t build a house on such a foundation. Therefore, a purposeful, striving for development, a man who understands that he needs to completely get from life what he wants, sees: even if he is at a peak, in uniform, he will have enough money that he can share with others, creating some more family, this chance for him with such a choice of his wife is closed.

And the person understands: damn it, why go there, then put a cross on himself? Somehow no longer hunting. How long has your experiment on the selection of a companion last? Long enough! There were a large number of all meetings and negotiations. Besides the Tatars, have you tested someone else? I did not test them, I recognized them. There is a certain subspecies - Uzbeks with Tatar roots, that is, Tatars, who lived in Uzbekistan for a long time.

Eastern culture influenced them, they became softer, more caring, living surrounded by neighbors, who have accepted that the husband, if not a saint, he still needs to wash his feet. This said that they are more humble in this regard. But in terms of development they have no skills, these skills were initially completely destroyed in childhood. Parents of such skills simply do not vaccinate them, the skill is vaccinated to clean up well and be a good woman.

That's all. The ruders of the “exclusive” are not laid, just a good standard product for a common sale is being prepared, which is now, in principle, in demand in the market. I say as a businessman, in the language of the salesman. There were other girls, helped social networks, various dating sites. I analyzed the information, watched photos, videos, made conclusions. Azerbaijani and Dagestanians would have approached very well, but there the problem will be in parents - they will not be given.

There is a rigidly clan system, and going against the system is useless. But for the Tatars, I repeat, they are very suitable. They are distinguished by oriental beauty, mystery, other certain positive qualities, and this entails.